The key to a peaceful fight is patience. Keeping your voice down, understanding your spouses point of view first and giving your point of view after. Tell him your sorry for his anger but you were just trying to get your point across. Try to express yourself without adding any offensive fraises or offensive tone of voice. I know it can be hard but someone needs to take the first step in having a peaceful disagreement.
Find the problem and both figure out a solution that both can agree upon...... If you disagree with him dont be angry just explain why you disagree. If your a complainer STOP! The problem sometimes can be that your hubby doesn't feel your opinion or what ever you have to say is important because of so much nagging. If you keep a passive attitude and not allow the thing that makes you mad get to you, you can explain your point easilly with a positive tone and love.
INSULTS!!!!AHHH I DESPISE THOSE. Dont insult him back dont add wood to a fully flaming fire. If you dont like where the conversation is going end it with a maybe we should talk about this some other time Nothing else. If he insists listen but dont roll your eyes listen and think of something nice to say before you respond. REMINDER::::: PATIENCE If you really love your husband or boyfriend buildup patience.
Storming Out....The moment where he cant take it and walks out on you. Leaving you with your words in your mouth. When he leaves but you know he's leaving for a little while, don't chase him. Let him go, give him some air. Don't call him let him breath and think about things. Give yourself some time to think as well. But when he comes back if the argument was really not that big of a deal pretend like nothing happened. If it was later on bring it up with a "I dont want to argue but its bothering me and i would really appredciate if you can hear me out please. If he still doesn't want to hear it be patient and walk away 'ok no problem'. Even if you are burning inside dont let him see it that annoys them. As a couple, something that hurts you or bothers you needs to be fixed or there will be grudges. but the key is doing it at his pace.He is the leader in the dance floor, if the woman was leading on the dance floor you'd look masculine and he'd look feminine. Its like taking away his manhood.
Dont argue in public, its embarassing to the both of you, argue in closed doors. No one needs to know your business but your marriage counselor, coach or shrink. People like to always have soemthing juicy to spread, dont let you and your spouse's problems be their gossip of the day
All you are doing is bettering your communication with him and comunication is the most important thing to have in a marriage/ between a couple.
These are the only tips i can give for now. Hope they work well for you ladies. I know some of these suggestions are like lowering yourself but you cant look at it that way. You are training your husband to be a better listener in his time. You can't go against the current. God bless
